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Shift Change Coaching Leadership Series
Leadership
is required anytime we are given authority or responsibility. Merrily
Sable, RN, BSN
This month
we bring you the fifth article in the Six Keys to On Fire Leadership series with the Fifth Key- COURAGE!
The Six Keys
to On Fire Leadership guide nurse leaders/managers to shift from a hierarchical
model to more professional collaboration, practicing the coach approach to leadership. The Six Keys teach you to lead from the head but not without also
leading from the heart!
1.
Respect/honor – how do leaders show respect, and how do they earn it? Honor
self – honor each other – honor others
2.
Passion – find the best fit, empower others to succeed, be the cheerleader,
discover the passions of those you lead and utilize them
3.
Communication – how to shift to clear and valuable communication using powerful
language, critical conversation for conflict resolution, and creating purposeful
and respectful interactions
4.
Trust – integrity, honesty and accountability for yourself and others;
confidentiality
5.
Courage –how to make the shift to leader, develop confidence in yourself and
others and inspire those you lead
6. Recognition
– celebration and acknowledgment, intrinsic versus extrinsic rewards, giving
yourself credit
This month
we bring you COURAGE. The French
word courage means "heart and spirit." Great leaders act from their hearts. It
is a key trait for each one of us. According to Aristotle, courage is the first
human virtue because it makes all of the other virtues possible. Courage can be
translated into courageous communication, courageous leadership and the bravery
to make changes.
Each leader
is a unique person first, then a leader. Who are you being when you, in
particular, step up to be a leader? What unique talents or qualities do you
bring to your leadership? Courage can be one of them. Without courage, leaders
fail. Leaders have to make tough decisions and courage is a must behind their
actions. Learn to be courageous.
Shifting
into a leadership role is essential whether you have been thrust into the role
unexpectedly or have requested that position. Start where you are. Be aware of
how you see yourself as a leader. Are you fearful, excited, born to do this?What are your expectations of yourself or others as leaders? How prepared are
you to be a proactive versus a reactive leader? How well do you know yourself
and your leadership style?
Implementing positive change can be
stressful and difficult. As a leader, it is your responsibility to have the
courage to stay at the helm guiding your team. In order for you to do this
successfully, you must first build trust with your team as we discussed in last
month’s article. This is the beginning of the journey of making positive change
happen. Your staff will trust a leader with confidence and a leader cannot
exhibit courage without self-confidence.
What are your confidence builders? Are
you giving yourself credit for accepting the challenge of leadership, making a
change, your years of technical expertise and patient care, (therefore people)
experience? Are you requesting honest feedback often from varied supportive
sources? Are you practicing one of the essential Six Keys to Nursing Success,
Self-Care Before Nursing Care, or in this case, before leadership?
Know the
traits of a courageous leader. Courageous leaders accept responsibility. When things go wrong, courageous leaders accept responsibility for their actions
as well as the actions of their team. They do not blame others, nor do they
focus on the past. Again, start where you are. Accepting responsibility is
mandatory, never optional.
Include
everyone on your team to accomplish your goals. Recognize your overachieving super stars, average
“worker bee” stars and falling stars. Appreciate the value of each group, often
to put the whole team in perspective. Praise and monitor the overachievers to
prevent burnout, inspire the bees and catch the falling stars.
Lead with clarity. Do not confuse your staff or
colleagues. Be honest. Say, professionally, what you mean and mean what you
say as well as walking your talk. Do not ignore the small things. Pay attention
to details. Denying or overlooking the obvious doesn’t make it go away. Instead, the small easily solved problem often grows to monumental proportions
and is forced to the center of your attention. Have the courage to deal with
things as they come. Have the courage to address conflict and be part of the
process in resolving the issue. Set boundaries and foster a culture of respect
for the workers and the leader. It’s a two-way street.
Inspire your team. Practice optimism. It is a
courageous state of mind. Choose to accept and make the best of difficult
situations. An optimistic leader believes that obstacles are temporary and
offer opportunities for solutions, learning and growth.
Inspire others to maintain optimism by:
1. Replacing
endless discussion with purposeful action
2. Focusing on
the solution, not the problem
3. Turning
attention to what is working and letting go of what is not
Be a role model for those you lead and
your co-leaders. Are you showing up each day at your best? Courageous
inspirational leaders know that it is vital to be committed to self-improvement, personally and professionally. Scheduling time to hone your
technical and people skills and balancing your life with fun and things you are
passionate about create a leader that can weather storms and support their staff
and organization to the fullest. Use the Shift Change Coaching Six Keys to
Nursing Success as your foundation and remember, one
good wish changes nothing; one good decision along with purposeful action
changes everything.
We hope you
have enjoyed this month’s Fifth Key to On Fire Leadership, COURAGE! Next month
we will bring you the final article in this series on the importance of
recognition to round out your excellence in leadership. We teach you the 6 keys
to take your experience of leadership to new levels whether you are on the
giving or receiving end of leadership. Work with Shift Change Coaching and you
will know when to lead, follow or get out of the way!
Best regards,
Merrily Sable, RN, BSN and Betsy Smith, PhD
 
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